The current autism blackpill going around on X (this and related quote tweets) is real and true, but it is what it is. Brazil (and actually most of the world) is fairly racist, if you're brown/black there are all sorts of ways in which you're treated as a lesser human being, and when it happens there's nothing you can do other than shrug, it is what it is. Many people go from being fat to thin or thin to fat and mention how extreme the difference in treatment is, there's nothing to be done about that, it is what it is. And of course, everyone knows about how attractive people live in another world compared to ugly people, it is what it is. There's nothing to be done about the fact that people are judged so harshly on such shallow markers, other than not engaging in such behaviors yourself. But you, too, are a human being, and bypassing your instincts is hard. As I mentioned a while ago, I noticed I had been judging potential autists too harshly all my life only recently, it's very easy to simply not understand what's actually going on in your interactions with others, especially if you're kind of socially retarded yourself. Still, we must strive towards treating others as we'd like to be treated, this does not mean you will be treated as you'd like to be treated, it is not a trade, it is an unconditional offering.